The Power of Silence

What did you not say yesterday?wow accountWere there things you wish you had said but held back? Did you corral certain words, certain sentences, and hold them for another opportunity?ffxi gilWere some thoughts pushed below the surface, allowed to be changed with time, perhaps to be forgotten forever? How many “I love you’s” went unsaid that would have healed an aching heart? As with sleep,dofus power levelingyou cannot store them and build a reserve to tap into at a later date. Their power, their balming effect, quickly dissipates with disuse.puma shoesThey work only in the moment that they were intended. Left idle, their potential is gone,christian audigier clothingthe object of their delivery untouched by kindness, by tenderness.
“I love you.”ball valveIt is so simple to say. Three words. There are many other opportunities to say them, but none more important and possessing more potential than now. Words can have the opposite effect if left unsaid, almost as if they were spoken as opposites. Silence can equal the opposite.nike sale“I love you” unsaid can become “I don’t love you” out loud. Your most tender and endearing thoughts, if not allowed to fly free from the prison of your mind, may silently tell someone that you don’t care. How many times has your silence told your partner or child that you didn’t love them? How often has an unsaid word created the opposite effect?designer handbagsThink of all the lives that would have been changed had armies of sentences been allowed to roam free.glue gunThose who go through life cloaked in spoken endearments, wrapped and comforted in the voiced love of others, are truly blessed. The power of the spoken word is mighty. The power of silence can be mightier still.
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Allow your thoughts to be heard. You are the most powerful person on earth. You alone possess the ability to change your world, make friends, and influence people.windows software You have the key. Use your words for good. They can help you. Don’t withhold them, for in their muted state they can turn on you. Life is a fine balance of releasing the right words in the right order at the right time, and deciding which words are truly better left unsaid.