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渣打邮件门 渣打银行邮件门:瑞信女英文控诉渣打小三陶丹阳事件(小三门照片)

渣打银行老板和下属出轨,老婆给小三用英文写了邮件, 并转发公司所有人. 以下为全文

大奶的英文原文：
Dear friends,
After 13 years and 2 beautiful children together, Yale and I have parted
our ways. Yale moved out last week.
Dear Diane/Tao Dan Yang,
Over the past couple of years, you knew everything about my family. You knew
when my kids had their soccer tournaments, you knew when they had their
swimming practices. You even knew their baby nicknames. On December 18th,
2009, on a noon flight, I took my children to the U.S. for Christmas vacation
. On the very same day, December 18th, 2009, on an afternoon flight, you
and Yale took off for the beaches of Phuket and shopping streets of Bangkok
for Christmas vacation. Diane, as a fellow woman, I often wondered if the
level of ecstasy this vacation had brought you equates to the level of
devastation
this vacation had brought to my children and me. Diane, I often asked myself
what was it like for you to sleep in the arms of another woman's husband
, other children's father? I wondered if you ever thought about us, the children
and the wife, that we are made of flesh and blood, that we have feelings
, that we could get hurt, very hurt, devastatingly hurt. I pondered if you
knew you were destroying a family, if you knew your joy would bring endless
tears to us.
We went to Beijing last week for Chinese New Year. Your clothes were in our
Beijing home. My son screamed:" Mommy, don't touch those, they are disgusting
! Set them on fire, burn them to hell. They are the devil's cloth!" My children
are hurt. My daughter, 9 years old, now says "Mommy, I don't ever want to
get married." My son, 8 years old, says "Diane is our Voldemort!" The
psychological
damage this affair has done to my children is catastrophic. They are forever
emotionally damaged. With this, I announce you the winner.
How do I feel, Diane? This affair is like 10 thousand knives stabbing and
chopping my heart all at once. This affair has left me in so much pain that
I don't know how to heal myself. This affair has taught me tear supply can
actually be infinite. This affair has crushed me, leaving me a corpse walking
around with no heart. I don't know how to deal with this kind of pain. I
don't know how to move on. But I have children. I must move on. Diane, I
pray to God that you will never have to experience this kind of betrayal
and hurt. I wish you and Yale a happy life together because, after all,
we are all women and we all deserve to be happy.
With sincere regards,
Lily

英文版的老公回复

Lily,
Please do not bring the personal issues to the public. The truth of the facts
is that our marriage had been falling apart 8 years ago, divorce had been
in discussion 5 years ago. Our issues are known to all the people in the
word! Diane had done nothing wrong for her part! I am firmly standing by
and behind Diane. I will certainly hope she will marry me one day soon!
Trying to tell the people how evil I am and Diane is in this way is not going
to succeed! All the people, who knows you, me and our marriage, supported
my divorce, including my good friend Zhu Wei. I am sorry I have dragged
everyone into this. Lily please move on!
Sincerely yours
Yale

小三的英文回复：

Dear Lily,

I understand that you are going through a difficult time in your personal life, and I sincerely hope that you will find a way to deal with it that is the best for you and your children.

I do understand how you feel.   I also understand, however, that a marriage can only break apart from the inside.   I do not appreciate your attempt to smear my reputation and paint me as the home wrecker.   You know as well as Yale does that your marriage fell apart long before Yale and I even met.   Whether or not I am in Yale's life has nothing to do with the eventual outcome of your marriage.   I am sure you understand this as well, but you nonetheless sought to burn me on the cross as the scapegoat for your failed marriage, which I do not believe is a mature thing to do.

Your description of the emotional damage your children have suffered is disturbing indeed.   I cannot help but wondering what you have been telling them.   I would think that a mother's first and foremost priority is to protect her children from any emotional damage, rather than using them as bargaining chips with a spouse or as props to win public sympathy.   Yale is the children's father and will always be.   I am sure he will always love them and be the best father he can be to them.   Wouldn't it make more sense, for the sake of the children's wellbeing, to emphasize to them that both their parents will always love them even though one parent will not be living with them all the time?   I do not see what benefit there could possibly be to teach the children to hate their own father.

You asked me how it was like to sleep in Yale's arms.   I also wanted to ask you, Lily, why would you want to hang on to someone who clearly does not want to be with you at all?   Lily, you are intelligent, highly-educated and you have a high-paying and well-respected job.   So why did you spend so much time and energy trying to force someone who does not care about you to stay with you?   As a fellow woman I want to ask you this, don't you think you deserve better?   If there's anything that is worse than sleeping in the arms of another woman's husband, it is sleeping in the arms of someone who resents you, cannot stand you and wants to run away from you whenever he gets a chance.   So Lily, why would you want to put yourself in that situation?   Once again, don't think you deserve better?

I sincerely hope that the pain you are currently feeling will subside soon and you can turn a new leaf in your life.   Please remember, you can lose a job, you can lose a spouse, but you should never lose yourself.   And please, do not vent your negative feelings on your children.   They are innocent.   Please always keep in mind their best interests rather than your own.   You deserve true happiness, and I hope that you will find it soon.

Best regards,

Diane

以下为上海话版本…….



百合花,

谢谢弄伐要闹私拧感情带到工作高头来.现在额事实就是阿拉8年额婚姻生活邦特了,阿
拉5年前头就讨论离婚了.全世噶额拧才晓得阿拉额事体额好伐.小戴根本么组粗特撒事
体.无绝对登了一背后头撑一额,无覅特想快地帮一结婚噢!

弄想起帮拧噶刚无帮小戴有多少多少坏是伐会成功额,所有拧,才拧得弄个则女拧额,才
晓得阿拉额婚姻额,一拉才支持无离婚额,包括无要好额旁有猪尾.无老对伐起拿额,闹
拿拖进来.百合花弄继续呀有本事弄继续好来!

此致

亚



亲爱额小戴/淘丹阳(音译)

了了古起额婚姻生活当总,弄晓得所有阿拉窝里额情况.弄晓得阿拉小拧额比赛成绩;弄
晓得一拉参噶额游泳训练,弄晓得一拉额小名.了了2009年12月18号,无带老一拉乘中浪
乡额航班到美国起古圣诞节.就是了同一天,2009年额12月18号,弄帮无老公乘下半捏额
航班到普吉岛海滩起白相了,还等了曼谷穷买么司,号称古圣诞节.小戴,同样是女拧,无
一直老想晓得,拿册起白相带八弄额惊喜是伐是帮带八无跟小拧额伤害是一样额.小
戴,无阿一直了门自噶像弄个能噶困了别额女拧额老公,别额小拧额亚旁边是撒感觉?无
爱老想晓得,弄到底考虑古阿拉伐?考虑古小拧帮一老婆伐?阿拉是有血缘关系额呀,阿
拉额感觉,可能对阿拉造成额伤害,老痛老痛额伤害,痛的来奥起话一额伤害,弄到底想
古伐?我穷想八想到底弄是伐是晓得弄了破坏一额家庭,弄乃弄额开心建立了阿拉额眼
粒四高头!

上额礼拜阿拉回到北京古尼,弄额衣裳居然了阿拉窝里,无尼子突乱之间叫起来:”姆妈,
覅起旁一!一拉老窝应额!闹一拉多到火里烧特!个眼才是狐狸精额衣裳!”无小拧伤了深
啊!无囡恩,则有9岁,一刚”妈妈,无再阿覅结婚了”无尼子,则有8岁,一刚:”小戴就是
则伏地魔”(见哈里波特)个窝措事体带八一拉额心理伤害是相当杯具额.一拉永永远远伐会
恢复了.是额,无承拧弄赢了.

小戴,无有撒感觉?个脏事体就像无额心八1万步刀子乱戳八戳(千刀万剐);个脏事体带
八无噶深噶深额痛苦以至于无根本伐晓得哪能恢复;个脏事体娘无晓得眼粒四原来真额
流伐光额;个脏事体完全毁特无了!无现在就是一具则会走路额尸体(行尸走肉).无根本
伐晓得要哪能此理个种痛苦;无根本伐晓得要哪能继续生活下去.但是无还有小拧,无必
须活下去.小戴,无希望菩萨保佑弄永远阿伐会旁着个种背叛与伤害.无希望弄高亚会得
古了开心,因为,刚到底,阿拉才是女拧,阿拉才应该得到幸福.(个女拧哈虚伪…纯属古拧
意见)

此致敬礼!

百合花

搞笑版翻译先上

亲们：
在一起过了13年，生了俩孩子，这个臭不要脸的男人还是跟我分手了，丫上周滚蛋了
。
小三：
这几年你对我们家了若指掌啊。我娃啥时候踢球啥时候游泳你tm都知道，连他们的小
名儿你都叫得出来。09年12月18，我前脚带着孩子去美国休假，你tm后脚就跟着臭不
要脸的去普吉岛厮混，去曼谷血拼。你丫也是一女人啊，知不知道你们tmd在那边有
多high，我们孤儿寡母在这边就有多惨？我要是你，才没脸跟另一个女人的丈夫，还
是几个孩子的父亲做这种龌龊事。我们孤儿寡母也是爹妈养大的，有血有肉的，你tm
竟然忍心这么伤害我们！你tm就是把你丫的幸福建立在我们的痛苦之上！
上周我回北京过年，竟然看到你丫的衣服那么淫荡地挂在我家里。我儿子哭着喊着让
我把它们烧了，忒脏！我闺女才9岁，已经说她以后不敢嫁人了。我儿子8岁，说你是
我们家的灾星。你tmd把娃们幼小的心灵彻底整成杯具了。他们这辈子毁你手里了。
算你狠！
我呢？我tm现在是万箭穿心啊，疼的没招没落的，悲伤已经逆流成河。我tm现在就是
一行尸走肉了。咋办，你说咋办。要不是为了娃们，我也活不下去了。小三儿，我祝
福你，祝福你这辈子别重蹈我的覆辙。祝你幸福，祝你全家幸福。



老公的回复

黄脸婆：
家丑不要外扬好不？咱俩8年前就感情破裂了，5年前就在说离婚了。地球人都知道咱
俩的事了，关Diane啥事体？我挺着她呢，我俩马上就结婚了，爱咋地咋地吧。

把我俩说成魔鬼，你就好受了是不？没门！认识咱们的人都说早该离了，撑啥撑啊，
连老朱也这么说。各位不好意思把你们拉进来打酱油了。算我求你了行不，你丫快滚