Think More about What you Have

One of the more pervasive and destructive mental tendencies I've seen is that of focusing on what we want instead of what we have.air jordanNFL jerseysNike WholesaleCheap ShoesDesigner HandbagsIt doesn't seem to make my difference how much we have, we just keep expanding our list of desires, which guarantees we will remain dissatisfied. The mind-set that says "I'll be happy" when this desire is fulfilled is the same mind-set that will repeat itself once that desire is met.
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